Frameworks

The One Variable That Explains Almost Everything

If I had to identify a single organizing principle for understanding psychological experience—anxiety, insomnia, panic, rumination, emotional reactivity, performance under pressure—it would be this: nervous system arousal.

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Strategic Thinking

Bus Stop Diplomacy

The simple test for whether your strategy is actually strategic: can you explain it at a bus stop?

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Mental Models

The Hermit Crab Problem

You've outgrown your shell. The problem isn't that you're broken—it's that you're holding onto something that no longer fits.

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Behavioral Psychology

The Dopamine Trap

Your brain is designed to seek dopamine, not to make you happy. Understanding this distinction changes everything about motivation.

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Emotional Intelligence

Clean Pain vs Dirty Pain

Clean pain is unavoidable. Dirty pain is what we add on top. The difference between suffering that heals and suffering that doesn't.

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Strategic Thinking

The Compound Interest of Small Improvements

1% better every day compounds to 37x improvement in a year. The mathematics of marginal gains.

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Decision Making

Delayed Gratification Intelligence

The ability to delay gratification predicts success better than IQ. Here's why—and how to develop it.

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Mental Models

Depression as Signal

What if depression isn't malfunction but information? Understanding depression as your system telling you something needs to change.

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Strategic Thinking

Domino Effects

The strategic leverage of finding the first domino. One small change that cascades into everything else.

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Decision Making

Extract Value From Every Experience

The cognitive habit of high performers: they extract learning from everything. Success, failure, observation—nothing is wasted.

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Strategic Thinking

First-Mover Dynamics

Being first isn't always an advantage. Understanding when to lead and when to let others test the water.

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Emotional Intelligence

The Mechanics of Grief

Grief isn't linear. It doesn't follow stages. Understanding what grief actually is—and what it isn't.

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Mental Models

Identity Fluidity

Your identity isn't fixed. The strategic advantage of holding your self-concept loosely.

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Philosophy

Life as Art

What if your life was the medium and you were the artist? A framework for intentional living.

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Philosophy

The Right Questions for Meaning

Meaning isn't found—it's created through the questions you ask. The framework for building a meaningful life.

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Strategic Thinking

The No-Lose Mindset

When you learn from everything, you never really lose. The reframe that makes risk more manageable.

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Strategic Thinking

Playing the Numbers Game

Success is often just a numbers game. The strategic value of volume over perfection.

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Behavioral Psychology

Random Action Protocol

When paralyzed by perfectionism, do something random. The counterintuitive strategy for breaking analysis paralysis.

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Mental Models

The Restless Dragon

High achievers don't rest—they redirect. Understanding the psychology of relentless drive.

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Mental Models

The Roller Coaster Reframe

Same physiological response, entirely different interpretation. How to use this insight to manage anxiety.

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Strategic Thinking

Second-Order Thinking

First-order thinking: what happens next? Second-order thinking: and then what? The strategic advantage of thinking two steps ahead.

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Emotional Intelligence

Understanding Shame Mechanics

Shame isn't about what you did—it's about what you think it means about who you are. The distinction that changes everything.

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Mental Models

Willpower: The Loan Shark

Willpower is borrowed at high interest. The more you use it, the more it costs. Design systems that don't require it.

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